We often experience a state of not feeling in control. Our actions, decisions all appear to be largely influenced by all around.(This does not apply to all but I can safely say that the majority of us experience this feeling ).
The crazy part is that its all very subtle. One does not even begin to realize the enormity of how controlled we actually are! “The other source” hovers in our sub conscious and governs our thoughts, actions- small and big and we are blissfully unaware. Only a vague restlessness is experienced.
It may have begun with toeing the line in childhood, staying in the good books, being seen as not rocking the boat. All in all we live our day to day not creating waves. But imagine doing just that – what if we push our own and other people’s boundaries; be it in dealing with thought patterns or actions.
One’s “thought ripple” brings out a different action or reaction which in turn sets off a whole new chain of events. This could be viewed as an aberration in our day to day life or an act leading to personal growth thus enhancing our lives.
Does one continue in the familiar cloistered environment or burst the bubble and open oneself to a new world via our OWN thoughts and beliefs. It may seem scary and one may not understand or recognize oneself but any thought rising in our mind is part of us.
It is an earnest wish that one empowers oneself to take charge – explore our minds and open up to our thoughts, feelings and experiences. Not reject or shy away from our seemingly new thoughts but accept, acknowledge and embrace the change we seek- thus enriching our lives.
Shilpa this is DEEP!!!
ReplyDeleteGreat musing Shilpa!!
ReplyDeleteIf personal growth in terms of self expression was measurable in inches you would be about 7 feet tall now!!And I completely agree with what you have written.
I think society as a whole does not accommodate those who prefer to tread on a self defined path.
ReplyDelete- defiant is what they get marked as
We are like the baby elephants who are forced to believe that the chain that ties us are unbreakable and like zombies walk in a beautiful line one after the other.
Encouraging the next generation to draw out their own horizon or individuality (while they are growing) and making sure that they don't accept defeat / mold themselves to what others define - would be a contribution great enough.